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Child Safety Tips
Courtesy of The National Center For Missing and Exploited Children
What are the most important things parents should tell children about safety?
Always check first with a parent, guardian, or trusted adult before going anywhere, accepting anything, or getting into a car with anyone.
Do not go out alone.
Always take a friend with when going places or playing outside.
Say no if someone tries to touch you, or treats you in a way that makes you feel scared, uncomfortable, or confused.
Get out of the situation as quickly as possible.
Tell a parent, guardian, or trusted adult if you feel scared, uncomfortable, or confused. There will always be someone to help you, and you have the right to be safe.
What should a parent know when talking to a child about safety?
Don’t forget your older children. Children aged 11 to 17 are equally at risk to victimization. At the same time you are giving your older children more freedom, make sure they understand important safety rules as well.
Speak to your children in manner that is calm and non-threatening. Children do not need to be frightened to get the point across. In fact, fear can thwart the safety message, because fear can be paralyzing to a child.
Speak openly. Children will be less likely to come to you about issues enshrouded in secrecy. If they feel that you are comfortable discussing the subject at hand, they may be more forthcoming. Do not teach “stranger danger.” Children do not have the same understanding of “strangers” as adults; the concept is difficult for them to grasp. And, based on what we know about those who harm children, people known to children and/or their families actually present greater danger to children than do “strangers.”
Practice what you preach. You may think your children understand your message, but until they can incorporate it into their daily lives, it may not be clearly understood.
Find opportunities to practice “what if” scenarios.
Teach your children that safety is more important than manners. In other words, it is more important for children to get themselves out of a threatening situation than it is to be polite. They also need to know that it is okay to tell you what happened, and they won’t be tattletales.
Is "stranger danger"—that dangers to kids come from strangers—really a myth?
Yes. In the majority of cases, the perpetrator is someone the parents or child knows, and that person may be in a position of trust or responsibility to the child and family. We have learned that children do not have the same understanding of who a stranger is as an adult might; therefore, it is a difficult concept for the child to grasp. It is much more beneficial to children to help them build the confidence and self-esteem they need to stay as safe as possible in any potentially dangerous situation they encounter rather than teaching them to be "on the look out" for a particular type of person. For decades, parents, guardians, and teachers have told children to "stay away from strangers" in an effort to keep them safe. In response to the on-going debate about the effectiveness of such programs, NCMEC released the research-based Guidelines for Programs to Reduce Child Victimization: A Resource for Communities When Choosing a Program to Teach Personal Safety to Children to assist schools as they select curricula aimed at reducing crimes against children.
What other advice can you offer parents about talking to kids?
Parents should choose opportunities or “teachable” moments to reinforce safety skills. If an incident occurs in your community and your child asks you about it, speak frankly but with reassurance. Explain to your children that you want to discuss the safety rules with them, so that they will know what to do if they are ever confronted with a difficult situation.
Make sure you have “safety nets” in place, so that your children know there is always someone who can help them.
What child safety education resources does NCMEC provide?
NCMEC offers a wealth of resources to help educate parents, children, law enforcement, and the general public about child safety. [Safety tips adapted from Know the Rules...General Parental Tips to Help Keep Your Children Safer. Copyright© 2000 National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC). All rights reserved.] I heard about a tracking device for children on a commercial. Is there one that NCMEC recommends? Consumers need to understand that the first line of defense for families is safety education and line-of-sight supervision of their children. If a device is to be used, understand what it can do and cannot do, that machines can fail, and that the tracking device should be, if they choose, an element within a complete safety program for their family. Additional safety tips can be found at www.missingkids.com.
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Is it unsafe to post family pictures of children online?
Posting your child's pictures on any site could put them at risk for victimization. Using privacy settings to limit access to your children's pictures can help to protect them. However, you need to be sure that only people you know and trust in real life are able to see your pictures.
There is no particular way to prevent your uploaded images from being copied, saved, and used by other individuals online. The only way to ensure that no one is using and saving your images is to avoid uploading them to the Internet. Even if you use coding to prevent users from right-clicking and saving your pictures, they can still screencapture the page the images are posted on.
Once an image is online, there is no getting it back.
The rules we tell children to follow when posting pictures online is to think before posting photos. Personal photos should not have revealing information, such as school names or locations. Look at the backgrounds of the pictures to make sure you are not giving out any identifying information without realizing it. The name of a mall, the license plate of your car, signs, or the name of your sports team on your jersey or clothing all contain information that can give your family's location away.
If you see others using your images and you want to stop them, you should contact the customer service department of the site to request that the image be removed. On some sites, you can report users for copyright violation if they are using your images without your permission.
AUTO BURGLARY PREVENTION
By M.O.S.T. Field Team
Be aware of your surroundings.
If you feel uneasy parking in a certain spot due to environment or bystanders, don’t park there.
Lock doors. Roll up windows. Use alarm and yes, even the Club.
Use a sunshade, even at night. Crooks prefer to see inside before a break in to assess contents and your security. Deprive them of that!
Ladies, crooks watch restaurant and other lots. If they don’t see you walking in with a strap on your shoulder, they know it means you left your purse in the car. They may have even seen you put it in the trunk. If you plan to do that, do it off-property.
Use parking spots that are well lit and well traveled. A well lit spot in a remote area of the lot is less favorable than a partially lit area close to the door.
If possible, park under a camera. Remember that you may enter a place in daylight and exit at night.
Break-ins also happen in broad daylight. Don’t let the sun lull you into a false sense of security.
If dining, ask for a seat with a window view of your vehicle. Not romantic, but neither is cleaning broken
glass off of the passenger seat.
The glow of the G.P.S. in your unattended car says “Steal Me” to crooks. Secure all valuables.
Tipping a lot attendant or bouncer may help to put extra eyes on your car.
Never leave a gun unlocked in the vehicle.
Be united. Keep an eye on suspicious activity around other cars. Report suspicious characters.
One person can make a difference. Metro Orlando has approximately 2.3 million people. Do the math.
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